Dealbreaker?

I gave a training today about healthy relationships. 

Women In the group came up with a list to define the term.

Here are some of my favorite items on our list:

• ·         Mutually respectful

• ·         Honest, with ourselves and with each other

• ·         Understanding

• ·         Safe, both physically and emotionally, so neither person is afraid to live and express his/her trut

• ·         Shared responsibility that appreciates the gifts and resources that each person has to offer

• ·         Fun

• ·         Shared empathy that allows each person to see the other’s point of view

• ·         Assumed goodness, always starting with the premise that the other has good intentions

• ·         Flexibility

• ·         Supportive so that each person knows that the other has her/his back

I like the list, but it makes me wonder…if one of the items on the list is missing, is that a deal breaker?