With Reckless Compassion

Oldest Daughter has been a joy and a challenge to mother.  She lives life outside the box, and even then, she pushes against boundaries.

She is a thoroughbred, who thrills at taking the turns at full speed, a hair’s breadth away from careening over the edge.  It is exciting and it is scary and I am rarely sure which emotion is more appropriate.

Today, I know. 

Today, Oldest Daughter was out to lunch with a friend when a young teen at a nearby table started choking.  Oldest Daughter didn’t hesitate.  She didn’t concern herself with the fact that her First Aid card has been expired for four years.   She didn’t think about the fact that she has only ever practiced the Heimlich maneuver on a lifeguard’s practice dummy.   She didn't freeze.   She didn’t avert her eyes and wait for someone else to step forward.

Today, my reckless, daring, out of control daughter stepped up and stepped in.

Today, my phenomenal daughter saved a life.

She literally saved a life.

Today, I know that I am not the only one who is grateful beyond measure for the blessing that is Oldest Daughter.